Moving to a new country is both an exciting and challenging experience, especially for our dedicated teachers who choose to embark on their journey to the Middle East leaving their homes and family in South Africa. After more than two decades of doing this work, we understand the emotions and difficulties that come with such a significant transition. We want you to know that we are here for you, offering support, guidance, and a sense of community to help you thrive. By connecting with fellow teachers through Facebook and Whatsapp channels you will get a sense of community and see that you are not alone in your feelings of homesickness or culture shock, but you will also quickly see that once you stick it out past the first three months that the experience is incredibly rewarding.
If you are feeling homesickness in the middle east read on and we hope that you see that you are not alone and that you start feel more at home in your new country soon.
The First Three Months: the toughest yet most crucial when feeling homesickness in the middle east
The first three months are often the hardest. You're adjusting to a new culture, new colleagues, and a new way of life. It's natural to feel a mix of excitement and homesickness. Remember, these feelings are completely normal. During this time, it's essential to remind yourself why you made this move and to focus on the rewarding experiences that lie ahead.
By keeping your motivations in mind you will be able to push through the first three months and once you have done that it will be so much easier.
Why are the first three months so hard?
Of course this answer will be nuanced for each individual but typically speaking there are a few very common reasons. We hope that if you understand that these reasons are very common to all the teachers who make the move, then you will be able to find the strength to push past them.
Living in a strange new apartment
This can feel very different from the types of homes we are used to in South Africa. Your apartment won't feel like your home in the first few weeks, but as you start to fill it with your things and spend time there, you will start to adjust. A new house always takes a few weeks before it feels like home, but once it does you will love it.
Everything seems so expensive.
This is especially the case in month one and two, but once you start receiving your new salary you will see that prices are all relative. One can't help but convert prices back into rands for the first few months, but once you stop doing that you will realise that life is actually quite affordable over there. Make sure you budget for that first month as best you can. We have a great article about budgeting for the first month. If you are already over there when you are reading then just stick tight. You won't be pinching your pennies forever!
Not having your normal support group.
This has got to be hardest part. Anyone who moves away from home is going to miss their friends and family. Making new friends and building a new support group is something that takes time. Take advantage of our Whatsapp groups to instantly connect with other teachers and remember that family and friends are just a Whatsapp call away.
Making new friends as an adult can be hard but if you stay active and visit places that interest you, you will soon start meeting people with like-minds and before you know it you will have new friends!
Feeling like a minority.
While some of you might be used to feeling like a minority, this feeling can make you feel alone or misunderstood. Moving to the middle east can be a culture shock for many South Africans, even though we have a such a diverse range of cultures in our country. The traditions and norms of the Middle East are very different from a lot of western countries, but do not worry, you will soon see that all people are very similar their core and you will quickly learn to thrive in the new culture.
You will also come to learn that there is a very large group of expats in your new country and once you start to connect them they will give you a strong sense of community. Keep a look out on Facebook and at local hotels, gyms and recreation centres for expat meet ups. You will definitely meet loads of South Africans and people from all over the world in your new city.
Coping with Homesickness
Homesickness is a common feeling when you're away from familiar surroundings. Here are some ways to cope:
Stay Connected: Use technology to stay in touch with family and friends back home. Regular video calls, messages, and social media can help bridge the distance.
Create a Routine: Establishing a daily routine can provide a sense of normalcy and structure. This can include your work schedule, exercise, hobbies, and exploring your new surroundings.
Find Comfort in Familiarity: Bring along some items from home that bring you comfort, whether it's a favourite pillow, photos, or even some local snacks.
Stay Active: Physical activity is a great way to boost your mood and reduce stress. Join a gym, take up a sport, or simply go for walks to explore your new neighbourhood.
Seek Support: Join WhatsApp groups to connect with other teachers who are going through the same experience. Sharing your feelings and experiences can be incredibly comforting and reassuring.
Ways to Settle In Successfully
Adjusting to a new environment takes time, but with patience and an open mind, you can settle in successfully. Here are some tips to help you:
Learn About the Culture: Take the time to learn about the local customs, traditions, and etiquette. Understanding the cultural nuances will help you feel more comfortable and respected in your new environment.
Build a Community: Forming connections with fellow teachers, colleagues, and locals can make a significant difference. Attend social events, join clubs or groups, and don't hesitate to introduce yourself to new people.
Explore Your Surroundings: Take advantage of your new location by exploring the sights, sounds, and flavours of the Middle East. This will not only help you feel more at home but also provide you with memorable experiences.
Stay Positive: Focus on the positive aspects of your new adventure. Celebrate small victories, whether it's mastering a few words in the local language or successfully navigating the local transportation system.
Perseverance Pays Off
It's important to remember that the initial challenges you face are temporary. Many of our teachers have found that after the first three months, they start to feel more settled and comfortable in their new surroundings. The homesickness begins to fade, and the excitement of living in a new country takes over.
Adjusting to a new culture is a journey, and while it can be challenging, it's also incredibly rewarding. You'll gain new perspectives, develop a deeper understanding of different cultures, and build resilience that will benefit you in all areas of life.
As your recruitment agency, we are committed to supporting you throughout this journey. Our support groups are here to provide guidance, answer your questions, and offer a listening ear whenever you need it. We believe in you and your ability to thrive in the Middle East. Remember, you're not alone – we're with you every step of the way.
Final Thoughts
Moving to the Middle East to teach is a courageous and life-changing decision. The challenges you face initially will soon be overshadowed by the incredible experiences and personal growth you'll gain. Stay connected, seek support, and embrace the adventure. Your perseverance will pay off, and you'll soon find yourself thriving in your new home away from home.
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